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My first experiences with sex magick were raising energy or
kundalini. My next expereinces were concentrating on a specific
goal or sigil at the point of orgasm. I had been practicing magick
for about 5 years before I experimented with this, as I had no idea
how to do it, or had no partner that would be interested. I used
sex magick with several casual sex partners (then disconnected us
energy wise afterwards). Each of these people were either
magickians or starting to learn magick. I have never tried it with
a non magickian. I have always told my partner what I was doing.
I married another practitioner who had never experienced sex magick
before. He was in a daze for the first 2 weeks of us dating.
Apparently a lot of energy can be raised by 2 magickians!
At one point I asked a friend online for an enochian sex magick
ritual. He outlined a ritual that included reading certain enochian
calls during the sex act, then attempting to skry. He then ended it
off with the combining of the sexual fluids. Well unfortunatly my
husband (at the time) found this to be a great turn off, and we did
not try it again lol! My husband was into magick, just apparently
did not like the idea of the vibration of enochian calls during the
act :)

I used a technique that I can't really describe to enhance my
partners pleasure during sex for a few years. This turned out very
well and I kept getting "your the best sex partner that I have ever
had". The method I use consists of feeling the energy being raised
and amplifying it. I also sometimes move energy up and down through
the chackras in both of us at the same time, or back and forth.
I read Modern sex magick, and used a bunch of intuitive ideas.
Also, Kali is my patron Goddess, and I got a lot of ideas by
connecting with her.

I did a 'great rite', or more like what I perceived a great rite to
be with my husband a couple of times. We cast an earth magick style
circle, then invoked a god and goddess into ourselves (I called
Kali), then we had sex. It was amazing, I could partially feel
myself, but mostly feel the pressence of Kali. When I looked at my
lover, his energy was overpowered by the god he invoked. It was a
very powerful experience, and my best invocation to date hehe.
More recently I have been the dominant in a 24 X 7 BDSM
relationship. I had experimented with bdsm for years, but never
combined the two. The person that I work with is submissive, and
has been in the scene for 20 something years. I have been teaching
him magick for a year now. He had practiced basic metaphysics and
meditation for 30 years, but had not done ritual or evocation.
This person cross dresses during our sessions.

My submissive is extremely good at skrying and had a very intense
vision the first time that he tried it. After we had skryed several
times, we started to incorperate bdsm. When we start to get ready,
we make a sort of ritual of the setup process. He dresses up as his
female self, and I prepare the temple and dress in my corset etc. I
then apply his makeup. We spend awhile discussing the ritual, who
we will evoke and what questions we will ask. This is sometimes
done before we even start to get dressed, and sometime it is after
we are ready. I feel that the energy needed for the operation
starts to construct itself when we first start discussing the
ritual, then builds from there.

When we combine the bdsm and magick, we first cast a circle around
the area and start with the standard ceremonial magick opening. We
currently use a rope for a physical circle as I have not completed
the goetic circle on canvas yet. We don't always use a physical
circle, but do most of the time as that seems to help build the
energy. This helps to get us into an altered state as well. I next
chain him and flog, paddle, whip, and violet wand him for about 1/2
hour to an hour. We then move to the evocation area. We sometimes
use a triangle outside of the circle (when working with goetia, and
sometimes enochian), and other times have the skrying device on the
alter (when working with enochain). I put nipple clamps on him and
bind his wrists behind his back. He said that this really helps him
to go deeper. I then flog him a bit more, or stick needles into
him. The needles have produced much more vivid visions as he is a
pain slut and they bring him into a much deeper state.

I then recite and vibrate the evocations until the entity appears n
the mirror. The slave then states what he sees and hears and I
write it down. We ask the questions that we wrote down beforehand.
We have found the visions to be more intense and more real when we
combine the pain with the evocation. I have also led him deeper
into sub space by telling him to completely submit and be receptive,
this seems to help as well. During the evocation, I have the
submissive/skryer wear one sigil of the entity around his neck, and
place the other one in the triangle.

After we finish, we either have sex in the circle; or dismiss the
entity, close the circle, banish etc. then have sex. We haven't
tried skrying during sex yet.

One ritual that we performed together was the use of sigils. I
created 2 sigils out of copper, etched with sigils contructed from
the rose cross. We did the usual warm up and flogging etc., then
moved into the ritual space. We raised energy with a mantra, middle
piller etc. I then placed a couple of needles into the side of his
arm and let the blood drip onto his sigil. I then stuck one of the
needles into the side of my arm for the same effect. We than had
sex in the circle and concentrated on the object of the ritual at
the point of each of our orgasms. We then combined the fluids (we
had used condoms) and spread that on the talismans as well.
We then closed the circle. We wore our talismans under our shirts
for a week.
The magick worked.

We have more recently been doing knife play, which elicits (sp?) a
lot of fear in the sub, and produces some blood. We will be
experimenting to incorperate this in our rituals. I use the same
dagger to cast my circles. I read that the lbrp dagger for example
should not have been used to cut flesh, so I am not sure if this
would have some negative reprocussions, but it seems to feel fine.

I'm sure I forgot some things, and left a lot out, but maybe this
will help to give others some fun ideas <eg>

Most of my sex magick has been designed using intuition. I have not
read any books on the topic other than DMK's book which doesn't
cover a lot on the bdsm part. IF anyone has any specific ideas on
how to combine bdsm and magick please let me know :) I wish they
had a spell check on this!!